An intimate experience that is entirely your own. Getting married with just the two of you or with a handful of your nearest and dearest. Going back to the essence of the two of you, where you handpick what reflects your vision of love and leave the rest behind. It’s about celebrating as you are. Celebrating love in the purest way possible.

Boutique Hotel De Durgerdam 
Located in the charming former fishing village of Durgerdam on the shores of IJmeer lies our idyllic lakeside hideaway, De Durgerdam. A 17th century inn thougthfully transformed into a 14-room boutique hotel and low-key-yet-place-to-be restaurant, De Mark. A magical oasis frayed by tall grasses, laundered linen whispering in the wind and a row of gabled, clapboard houses in misty hues skirting along the water’s edge.


Wedding planner With Lotte 
Creates iconic weddings from the heart. From a love for love. Never losing the essence out of sight. The union and celebration of two loving souls. She believe that whatever is meant to be for your day of love, will always find a way. Lotte is rooted in the Netherlands but does not believe in borders in where love could be celebrated. Traveling the world wherever her couples take her.


What can we do for you?
With its tasteful design, charming lake views and attention to detail, De Durgerdam creates a memorable backdrop for an intimate wedding. De Durgerdam will not just be your venue, but also your boat ride, wedding cake baker, caterer, night of sleep.

With Lotte will feel like your long lost friend who will not only bring everything and everyone together and make sure the day runs smoothly as your planner. She could also be the person to marry the two of you in the most loving way. 


By joining our expertise and magical touches, we can guarantee the most unique elopement you could have dreamt of.


What is included?
- One night stay at De Durgerdam for 6 people in 2 of our classic rooms and one of our suites. 
- A delicious 5 course chef’s menu served in our private wine room for up to 6 people.
(Possibility for more guests in the restaurant, De Mark)
- A bottle of champagne on the house 
- Hearty breakfast to kickstart the day 
- A romantic boat trip from Amsterdam to De Durgerdam (subject to availability) 
- Wedding planner and wedding officiant 
- Photographer 

When?
You tell us.


Connecting with you is our favorite part so please don’t hesitate to contact us for anything or everything at info@withlotte.com or monica@aedes.co